Modern dating is genuinely difficult - apps keep changing, everyone's frustrated, and there's no magic formula that works for all the time.

Here's what I believe: Dating isn't about attracting the most people. It's about finding the right person for you. It’s better to strongly appeal to the right people than mildly interest everyone.

Social skills are learnable, just like coding or any other skill. Nobody's born knowing how to write good messages or navigate first dates. These abilities develop with practice and feedback.

I meet clients wherever they are. Sometimes that's photo coaching, sometimes it's conversation practice, sometimes it's coordinating a haircut. Whatever helps you feel confident.

I'm poly/kink/LGBTQ+ friendly and have lots of experience with neurodivergent clients, especially those with autism and ADHD.