My Dating Philsophy

Modern dating is genuinely difficult. The landscape constantly shifts, apps change their algorithms, and everyone feels frustrated. There's no magic formula that works for everyone.

This is what I believe: Dating isn't about attracting the most people—it's about finding the right person for you. It's better to strongly appeal to someone who's genuinely compatible than to mildly interest everyone you meet.

That said, there are absolutely ways to showcase your strengths and put your best foot forward. I work with each client as a unique individual, identifying what makes them special and addressing any areas where they feel stuck. This sometimes requires honest conversations and deeper work, but it's incredibly rewarding.

I also believe that social skills are like coding or dancing—they're learnable skills that improve with practice. No one is born knowing how to craft compelling messages, navigate first-date conversations, or recognize when someone is genuinely interested. These skills develop over time through experience and reflection. I work with clients to build on their existing strengths, try new approaches, and gain confidence through practice.

My intention is to meet clients wherever they are. I've helped people take better photos, practiced conversations, held accountability check-ins, and even helped coordinate haircuts or therapy appointments. Whatever you need to feel confident and supported.

I believe in honesty, kindness, and open communication. I can't promise you a partner, but I can help you develop the skills to build meaningful connections.

I'm poly/kink/LGBTQ+ friendly and have experience working with neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with autism and ADHD. I welcome clients from all backgrounds.