Dating Consulting for Nerds
I’m here to help you navigate the dating world with confidence, authenticity, and a little bit of fun.
What I Do:
♥ Personalized Social Strategies - We’ll create a plan for dating (both in-person and online!) that emphasizes your strengths and helps you connect with others naturally.
♥ In-Depth Profile Reviews - Together, we’ll ensure that your online presence truly reflects your personality and interests.
♥ Practice Makes Perfect - From practice dates to real-time feedback, I’ll help you shine in any social setting.
♥ Empathetic Support - I’m here to encourage you, help you overcome obstacles, and celebrate your progress every step of the way.
Neurodiversity and LGBTQ+ Friendly!
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“I don't approach relationships in quite the same way most people do. Either I'm too nervous to let people know I'm interested in them, or I'm 100% blunt and straightforward about my attraction. There is no in between! Caitlyn understood this about me. She gently encouraged and guided me into telling my friend crush that I wanted to date them. Her support gave me the confidence I needed to take a risk, and her counsel helped me figure out what I really wanted to say. Now I'm married to that person and I've never been happier. Thank you Caitlyn!!”
— Alyssa, Software Engineer
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"Caitlyn brings a great combination of empathy and determination to her work. She was able to use her knowledge of my personality with her network to find opportunities and give good advice, and knew when to push me and when something was too much. I found the love of my life thanks to her, and I'll never, ever forget that.”
— Michael, Consultant
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"Caitlyn has a knack for breaking down an intimidating process into easy, manageable steps. She put me "on location" to shoot photos that captured that je ne sais quoi, and went line by line through several drafts to craft a profile that was authentic to who I was and what I wanted a potential partner to know about me. Through it all, she helped me see the logic behind every choice, so I felt I could navigate with a little more confidence through what can be a very foggy sea. And yes—I did get dates!"
— Rain, Artist
Meet Caitlyn
Hi! I’m Caitlyn, and I’m passionate about helping unique, brilliant people in find love. Whether you’re someone who thinks about the world a bit differently, feels a little socially anxious, or just hasn’t found the right approach to dating: I’m here to support you.
I have a degree in psychology, and my career has taken me through Harvard, MIT, and UChicago. I have a lot of research experience and a deep understanding of nerdy dating culture!
My approach is all about understanding who you are, what you value, and how you connect with others. When applicable, I like to use research and data-driven insights to assist you on your journey.